Reflection on Islam

            One of Prophet Muhammad’s sayings is, “Do you love your creator? Love your fellow beings first.” 

Living in the United States, I feel that the media has worked very hard in portraying Islam and the Muslim community in a negative stereotype by saying that they do not love other people, and if they do love anyone, they only love their fellow Muslim brothers and sisters. The Islamic community has been viewed in such a negative light that it is a shame that the rest of the world do not know the real truth. I believe as I have gained further understanding about Islam, I have been able to mature in my knowledge, and I can appreciate both the Muslim people and the teachings of Islam far more.

           

Islam means to submit or to abandon one’s self under the power and the will of God. That is why the teachings of Islam seem a bit strict. I believe that they are truly expressing that having God in charge of your life means that you truly have to submit yourself to Him. You cannot simply say that you believe in God, but your life not reflect that truth. For them, they must reflect the full extent of that truth. In Islam, Muhammad was given the Quran through the words from the angel Gabriel. His intention was not to create a new religion, but he was to remind the people of things God had said before which people forgot or chose not to follow. They even recognize Jesus as a prophet, and they give him high esteem, but they do not consider him to be the Son of God or the Messiah of the world. They also reiterate several truths that are given in the Torah, and they discuss the teachings of Moses as well.

            In the lectures, the primary focus was on justice and equity in Islam, but that message was carried as a beacon, not only for all the religions but for the people of the world. Justice is a personal value, and the believer is encouraged to attain justice as part of his God-consciousness. Seeking justice is definitely a value within both Christianity and Judaism. One group should not have more focus than another group. As humans, we tend to not be able to attain justice at the fullest extent, and God is truly a just God, but as we seek justice, we will move in the direction God wants for us. The Golden Rule is something that is familiar to all religions, and there might be different ways that the verse is expressed in the various teachings of Islam, Judaism, and Christianity, but the centrality of the message is clear. We ought to treat others the way we expect others to treat us, and we also must love the way we expect to be loved. Yet, justice cannot be decided forever. The world is a changing world, and we as humans grow in our knowledge and understanding. The way humanity viewed the world in the time of the Quran, the Bible, or the Tanakh is not the way the world is in the present age. Justice is dynamic, and there must be a sense of flexibility to the teachings that we can undertake. For example, in the United States, there was a time when people had African Americans as slaves, but in our time and context today, African Americans are not going to be slaves. Everyone should be paid for the work that they do, and they must be paid equally, without regard to color, creed, or gender. When the Constitution was first written, equality and justice was only intended for the “rich, white man,” but justice and equality today must be for all men and women. That is the case of the United States, and the Quran should be understood in a way that the rules are not all rigid.

            Mr. Shady Ammane, our lecturer shared with us the concept of the dynamics of group which I felt were very important. In a sense, the dynamics of group was looking through the lens of a Muslim. Usually, we only consider two parties are involved in injustice. There will be a victim, and then there will also be a group who pick on the victim. Yet, in order for a group to pick on a person, there must be an initiator that has the power to start or stop an attack on an individual. I view the dynamics of group in a school playground setting. There is a little child being picked on by a group of kids, and the kids laugh and harass that child, but how did that child begin to get harassed? There was one other child who felt the need to hide his or her own insecurities, so he or she begins to pick on a smaller child, and then gathers a group to join along, thus creating the dynamics of the group.

            Sharia law is something that the media has misconstrued, and the world has misunderstood. First and foremost, Sharia law is not intended for the world, but that is the law for Muslims. In Christianity, we all have the Bible as our fundamental teaching, but each denomination has their own dogmas and beliefs that are continuously passed on, and each member of a particular denomination must uphold those values. Yet, just as I mentioned before, there must be a sense of flexibility and not rigidness. As time progresses, we too must progress. Several people feel that they must hold onto the ideologies from the beginning. In Islam, there are those that believe one should do everything like the Prophet Muhammad did, but they fail to realize that in such a situation, one would not be able to drive a car, have air conditioning, and have smartphones. Similarly, in Christianity, there are those that feel they should hold onto their faith traditions and will refuse to let go of what they have. Yet, Mr. Mahmoud Hammoud said something that truly stuck with me. He said, “Faith traditions do not require for us to be idealistic but work on the betterment of the future for our children.” Regardless of what belief an individual has, they ought to realize that their children live in a very different time than they do. What, then, is the primary focus for them to impart to their children? Should the primary focus not be to provide for the child’s future in a better way? That is what should be truly expressed in each of our three religions.

            Finally, the media has misconstrued and the world has misunderstood the concept of jihad as well. There are two types of jihad: greater jihad (inner jihad) and smaller jihad (outer jihad). The greater jihad means to fight against one’s own personal urges and selfish desires. The smaller jihad states that if someone else attacks you first, you should only retaliate. The greater jihad is the primary focus though. Also, context applies! The Prophet Muhammad had no other option but to go to war in that time setting, so he did. Yet, if he did not have to go to war, then he would not have.

            I learned a lot about Islam in these past two days that I did not know, and a lot of things that I did know were reinforced. I truly enjoyed these sessions.

"Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother or sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother or sister."

-I John 4:19-21 

Reflection on Judaism

Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel once said, “Wonder rather than doubt is the root of all knowledge.” We were instructed to do a few assignments during the time of this course. First assignment was to write a reflection on Judaism. Since my reflection was two pages, I may consolidate it a bit to not prolong it more than necessary.

As a Christian, I have been exposed to Judaism as Christianity had beginning roots in Judaism. Of course, the Old Testament in the Christian Bible is the sacred text of Judaism, and is known as the Tanakh. The Sabbath or Shabbat is the day that Jews consider as the day of rest that God had commanded to the people of Israel. The Shabbat begins once the sun sets on Friday and continues until the sun sets on Saturday. They consider the Shabbat as a way to return the keys of the world back to God, as Rabbi Marc Raphael Guedj states. I consider his statement about returning the keys of the world back to God as a profound and deep understanding. As humans, our lives move forward with the various activities of our days, and the Jewish people will take some time out of their lives to give the keys of their life to God. As we had the privilege to attend the Shabbat service on Saturday, I was given a glimpse of what life is like for a Jew who observes the Shabbat. The service clearly had deep symbolic meanings, and every expression was deeper than what I could perceive. Rabbi Guedj even mentioned that in Judaism, there are several series of rituals and meanings. In order to keep the meanings, they create dogmas, and the dogmas provide meaning and understanding to what is being conducted. Being in an Orthodox Jewish synagogue, I could see that there might be distinct traits that would separate them from a Reformed Jewish synagogue. First, I noticed that the men were sitting closest to the Torah, and the women were in the balcony. I also thought that the blessing at the end was very impacting. The people could not look at the priests, and the priests had the tallit covering their faces. That is such a deep way to connect the presence of God among the people, because in the Torah, God told Moses that seeing His full presence would kill him, so to be in the presence of God, one should not be looking straight at His face. 

There is a prayer that was included in the second Morning T’fillah that really moved me. The prayer was in the beginning and discusses how the soul is pure and was shaped by God. He is the Almighty. I felt that the prayer really gives God His authority and lordship over the lives of the people. Personally, I do believe in the power of the soul, because when a body is dead, his or her body has a sense of emptiness, but when we are alive, the soul is what truly moves us forward.

Rabbi Guedj went into the deep realities of the Pesach, Sukkot, and the Shavuot which are holy days for the Jewish people. The Pesach is the passing over the angel of death which took the lives of the firstborn of Egypt as the tenth and final plague before Moses and the Israelites were able to depart from Egypt. The Sukkot also known as the Feast of Booths. During the time of the Sukkot, there are two and a half walls, and leaves are patched together for the roof. They spend a week inside, and that is a time of remembrance. The Shavuot, also known as the Weeks, commemorates the anniversary of the Torah being passed to the Israelites. During the time of the Shavuot, the Jews do not sleep during the night, and they study. The Shavuot is a remembrance that they should be alert, unlike the Israelites who began to worship the golden calf and Moses found them asleep as he came down Mt. Sinai with the Torah.

The Kabbalah is a certain mystical teaching within Judaism that Rabbi Guedj shared with us.The Kabbalah is the work of reaching the harmony between contradicting values. The Kabbalah has such a divine inspiration that most of the Jewish texts are influenced by the Kabbalah, and in such a manner, can be prompted to provide wisdom to the Jewish people. Of course, the Kabbalah is not something that should be taken lightly. For the Jews, several people say that the Kabbalah should not be taught to anyone under the age of forty. 

As Rabbi Guedj came to a close in his sessions, he shared with our group about the loss of universality. When the people attempted to build the Tower of Babel, God split the languages of the people. The Tower of Babel was a building enterprise for monolithic singularities. We, as humanity are in exile of a lost universality. When he said that we as humans are in exile without a sense of connection, I was so awestruck. I truly agree with him, because in today’s day and age, we love to express our individuality, and sometimes that becomes more of a priority for us. When our individuality becomes more of a priority, we begin to strive to not have a commonality, and when others do not share with our commonality, strife and conflict become the object of our world today.

I realize that I may not have learned the whole of Judaism, but as I continue to move on in this course, I hope that what I have learned thus far will be able to be connected to the future learnings of Christianity and Islam. With the newfound knowledge that I have received, I hope to utilize for future interfaith dialogue.

"By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating he had done."

-Genesis 2:2-3 (NIV) 

  

An Opportunity of a Lifetime!

Hans Küng, a Swiss Catholic Priest, Theologian, and Author once said, "There won't be peace in the world until there is peace between religions. There won't be peace between religions until there is dialogue between religions."

I am really surprised that it has been almost a year since my last post. I guess the most recent post I should have shared would have been the accident, which most everyone knows about. I guess I have not felt completely ready to share all that on my post. I mean, even to this day, just thinking about that day, losing Patrick, and just various results of that day makes me tear up, so hopefully, once I return to the United States, I will be ready and willing to share my testimony of the accident on my blog.

Until then, I will share about my current experience here in Switzerland! First and foremost, I would like to say, if you get a chance to visit Switzerland, I HIGHLY encourage you to do so! Switzerland is so beautiful, and I cannot get over the natural state of this great country.

Earlier this year, the Bishop of the Mar Thoma Church, North America & Europe Diocese sent me and a few others an email about a program that was going on in Switzerland in the month of August. Unfortunately for my colleagues, they had classes during the month of August, and since I graduated with my BA in May, and I was about to begin my one year field training (kind of like an internship with the MTC), the month of August was basically free. I agreed to attend, but the cost was enormous. By God's grace, the Diocese and my church family were able to fund the trip. The program is known as the InterFaith Seminar conducted by the Ecumenical Institute at Bossey. The Ecumenical Institute works hand in hand with the World Council of Churches headquartered in Geneva, Switzerland. Also, they are accredited by the University of Geneva. I was so elated to attend this seminar, because I had known about the beauty of Switzerland, and I was also looking forward to learning more about Christianity, Islam, and Judaism.

After arriving here, I can truly say that I received more than I bargained for. The first week is coming to an end, and in the first week, I have built strong bonds with people from all over the world, and I have also learned so much in our sessions. I believe that my experience is definitely an opportunity of a lifetime and simply by the grace of God, was I able to attend.

Sunday, we all just hung out. I was quite a bit tired, so of course I took a nap, and I was able to prepare myself for the next day.

Monday, we began our day with some really delicious breakfast, and a get to know each other session after the breakfast where we shared each other's faith journeys. Just as there are different "flavors" (denominations) of Christianity, so too there are different faith expressions with Judaism and Islam. I knew that there were various views of each religion before coming here, but I did not realize how different the religions are until we began talking about our faith journeys.

Tuesday, we had the General Secretary of the World Student Christian Federation come spend time with us. She gave me several good ideas of ice breakers that I hope to use in the future. After our ice breaker sessions, we spent time drawing our life based on our religious context, and then we presented and shared what we drew. We also had a session on Sustainability of Creation. What a place to discuss that topic! I mean, here creation seems to be sustained very well. I wish the United States would pick up on some of the practices here. Regardless of the religion, God gave an ordinance to take care of the land, but we choose to harm and abuse the land. During this discussion, we also conversed about the different views about the days of creation and how each religion views those days. Included in that topic, we began the conversation of the choice of eating meat. There are several people here that are either vegetarian or vegan. One day, I hope to join those ranks as well.

Wednesday, a presenter shared the history and vision of Bossey. After that, we all presented from the country we represented about peace and justice issues in our own country in terms of inter-religious context. The only other American here is a Reformed Jewish individual who is currently studying to be a rabbi, so the future priest and future rabbi teamed up to present. I'm sure there is a joke in there somewhere. I thought it was a great experience teaming up with him and really sharing how both of our religions play an impact in the society we live in. I was also able to share the Mar Thoma faith to the people that are attending here.

Thursday (today), was the first actual teaching session about a particular religion. We were able to hear from a French Orthodox Jewish Rabbi who taught us a lot. He was very philosophical, and I was getting lost a bit in what he was sharing. There were two translators who ended up translating what he was saying. We did have some technical difficulties, but after those were solved, I think the conversation kicked off. I was able to understand enough, and I was able to take away a lot of information. We were also able to partake of the morning prayers of the Jews, and I thought their prayers and the way they conduct their prayers were a wonderful way of expressing your commitment and devotion to God.

I will close off here. I am truly loving my time here, and I am able to learn more about the three religions. I know God will continue to use this season of my life for greater purposes in ministry.

"Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one."

-Deuteronomy 6:4 (also known as Jewish Sh'ma)

Living like Christ or like a Pharisee?

John McClintock, a Methodist Theologian and a great preacher, orator, teacher, and a scholar who intellectually contributed to Methodism unlike anyone else once said, "The pharisees are not all dead yet, and are not all Jews." 
Also, Jeremy Taylor, an author who was sometimes known as the "Shakespeare of Divines" once said, "The pharisees minded what God spoke, but not what He intended. They were busy in the outward work of the hand, but incurious of the affections and choice of the heart. So God was served in the letter, they did not much inquire into His purpose; and therefore they were curious to wash their hands, but cared not to purify their hearts."

I was initially thinking about posting this on Facebook instead of in my blog. Then, I thought that it would be better if it is on my blog, and I can write as much as I want.

I know that it has been a while since I've posted on my blog, and largely, it's been because of laziness or various struggles that I went through. No worries, I'm back! :) I've had a lot of opinions about a lot of things lately, even about the political world with the elections and such, but I'm going to focus on a huge tragedy that has been unfolding this past week.

As many if not all of you have heard, many Muslim nations have been rising up in protest against the United States within this past week. Also, the United States Ambassador to Libya J. Christopher Stevens was assassinated in Libya this past week. The reason that these nations use to justify these actions is because of a film that was released that shamed Islam, and insulted Muslims.

First and foremost, I will state that no matter what, their reason does not justify such harsh actions that they have taken against the United States, ESPECIALLY in killing Ambassador Stevens. It is very harsh, and they should know that the voice of the few should not speak for the rest of us, and it should not result in innocent people being killed.

With that being said though, I think we must also look at it from their viewpoint. We live in the United States where freedom of religion is a huge thing, but the adverse side of it is, we can poke fun at religions, and people have been so desensitized by it that we deem it okay. Over there, they have been used to things being censored that speak out against Islam, but this fell through the cracks, so to say. Nonetheless, it's unbelievable that someone would make such a film. This film portrays the Prophet Muhammad as a homosexual and is very offensive to the Islamic community. First of all, to even portray the Prophet Muhammad is considered blasphemous, and the way that film referred to him was just downright wrong. I may not be a Muslim, but I know how important it is that we respect all religions and ways of life. The man who made the movie and the man that is the face of promoting this movie are people that are intolerant, and throughout history, these people have really had a skewed vision of humanity. Whether it be the time of slavery or hatred towards the African American community or Hitler and Nazi Germany's hatred of Jews, homosexuals, and other minorities, these people have this superior mentality, and so they will do what they can to belittle others. This behavior is intolerable and unacceptable. We shouldn't be insulting other religions, and the man who is "credited" for directing this movie is identified as Nakoula Basseley Nakoula. He is a self-proclaimed Coptic Christian. Majority of the film was shot in the offices of Media for Christ, a charity that raises money to "glow Jesus' light to the world."

Please tell me how this is glowing Jesus' light to the world. When I read the Bible, I see a Jesus who loves everyone, not condemns them. I believe in a loving God, but I also believe that loving God is also a just God. How is this justice? Many people say that we should bring others to Christ, but then we slam the Bible in their face. This has given so many people a bad taste of what Christianity is, so they go far away from Christ, instead of coming to Him. Actions like this film continues to support people's view that Christianity is a hateful religion. In fact, someone that has supported this film is Pastor Terry Jones, a Pentecostal Pastor located in Florida who was intent on burning Qurans back in April of 2011. Explain to me how this is showing Christ's love.

There is a passage in the Bible that I really find very interesting and shows Christ's nature. It's John 8:1-11. In this passage, an adulteress is brought before Jesus by the pharisees. The pharisees ask him what they should do to her, since the law says to stone her. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but it takes two to tango. Besides the point, what does Jesus do? He stoops down, and He begins writing on the ground with His finger. After the pharisees keep questioning Him, Jesus stands up and says one of the best lines I've ever heard. "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." Then, He goes back to writing on the ground. Now, we don't really know what He was writing on the ground, but eventually all the pharisees leave, because they realize their sins. Then, after they leave, Jesus stands up again, and He asks another one of the best lines I've ever heard. "'Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?' 'No one, sir,' she said. 'Then neither do I condemn you,' Jesus declared. 'Go now and leave your life of sin.'" Can you believe it? The ONE man who is without sin didn't stone her; He told her to go home and leave her life of sin! Then, how much more should we be understanding of other people when we are sinful just like them? Then, how can we condemn people because they have a different faith than us?

I think we as Christians really need to examine ourselves. As Christians, we are called to be like Christ, but it seems like Christians are being more like the pharisees more than we are being like Christ. During Christ's ministry on earth, He didn't condemn anyone except for the pharisees, because they felt they were superior to others, and they liked to condemn people for their flaws, but they never looked at their own flaws which were many. I will stress a point that I've made time and time again. Sins are equal in the eyes of God, so we cannot bash other people. Before we pick up a stone, we should examine ourselves and see if we are without sin, because I can assuredly tell you that we are with sin. Christ forgave us though by His love and sacrifice, so that is how we are to portray Christianity.

I'll leave with a song. I heard this song recently, and it's been stuck in my head since. The song is called, "The Proof of Your Love" by For King & Country. Check it out here: For King and Country - The Proof of Your Love.

"If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone."

-Romans 12:18 (NIV 1984)

"Do not overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

-Romans 12:21 (NIV 1984)

"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing." 

-I Corinthians 13:1-3 (NIV 1984)

 

Mutuality Between One Another

As a Diocesan initiative, Theodosius Thirumeni had instructed Rev. Joseph Johhny from St. Thomas Mar Thoma Church, New York to have various people create devotionals for each day. He sought me out last month, and he told me to make one. Mine was sent out a few days ago. Below, you will see my devotional.

The Mar Thoma Church

Diocese of North America & Europe

Christian Education Forum

Daily Meditations

Word for the Day – June 4th

Mutuality between One Another

John 13:34-35

“By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

-John 13:35

Love as a Command, not a Suggestion

Mother Teresa once said, “The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.” We all yearn to be loved. Being loved is an intricate value of humanity. To go around not feeling loved is like walking in the desert without water. Christ understood that, and that is why His love was not simply to the teachers of the law or those of wealth and stature. Christ extended His love to those that were not loved. He loved the tax collectors, the prostitutes, and the thief on the cross. That is why in this passage we see Christ giving this commandment. He is not requesting or suggesting, but He is commanding His disciples and us to love one another.

Love should be Embedded Within Us

In verse 35, Jesus points out how we are to be identified as His disciples. It is by loving one another, but that does not simply mean our friends, family, and those near to us. It means loving those that are less fortunate, those that are discriminated against, and those that are hurting. Can we truly love like Jesus loved? In an individualistic society, we are taught to think about ourselves and to rise to the top, but Christ teaches us something different. He teaches us to not worry about our own selves, but to be there for others. In the thirty three years that He was on this earth, He modeled true love for us. As believers, love should be embedded within us, so much so that we can even love those who hate us.

We have been bought with the precious love of Christ. His death and resurrection was not meant to save a select few, but it was freely given for the whole world. Therefore, it is our duty to go out into the world and love one another. We are to be the hands and feet that bring souls to Christ. Therefore, let us take this commandment of Christ into our heart and show others that we are His disciples by loving one another.

Prayer: Lord Jesus, You have commanded us to love one another, so that all men may know we are Your disciples. Please enable us to walk in Your steps and carry out Your commandment to the ends of the earth. All these things we ask in Your precious name. Amen.

God, Marriage, Country

John Calvin a reformer in his own right once said, "Whatever a person may be like, we must still love them because we love God."

Recently, I've been wondering to myself if the Christians of today model the Pharisees of old rather than the Early Church. The reason I ask myself this is because of how we as Christians exemplify love to others. We have a select group of people that we model our love to, and we have conditions for our love, but Christ said to love like He loved. This is by far my most controversial post yet. I try to stay away from topics like this, but I've been experiencing a lot of personal growth, and I feel that it is my duty to post this.

First and foremost, let me begin by stating that my personal view of marriage is that it is between a man and a woman. Based on my personal beliefs, opinions, and my spiritual convictions, I cannot support gay marriage, but I ask that you read on.

About a year ago, I was doing my practical training. (Can you believe it? This blog is almost a year old!) Towards the latter end of my stay in New York, I attended a Junior Senior Conference in New Jersey. During the rec time of the conference, two of my friends and I decided to go to one of their houses. On the drive, we engaged in some conversation regarding controversial/political debate. We argued the topic of gay marriage. At that time, I was strictly against gay marriage. He told me something that really resonated with me.

Then, this past Spring semester, I took three counseling classes for my major. One of which I had a homosexual instructor whom I had great respect for, and he played a huge role in getting me to think about the LGBT community. Then, I made a bunch of friends in those classes that were also homosexual, but they were some awesome friends. They had a deep personal desire to counsel others, and they had grown so much from the pain they had suffered, and they wished to use that to help others. The instructor that I had was in seminary before he dropped out, and then he came out, and now he is a licensed counselor. One of the things he said in class really hit close to home for me. I am paraphrasing what he said, despite your personal viewpoints, as counselors model your life like Jesus Christ who loved and sat with the sinners, tax collectors, and prostitutes. Bam. When I heard that, I sat back in my chair, and I felt my whole head just twirl, because I began to realize that as a Christian believer, I was not loving the way Christ did.

In today's time and age, there are quite a few people that are homosexual. As Christians, we have taken it upon ourselves to seemingly wage a war against homosexuals. Christians condemn them and make it seem like Christians are not sinners, or that being gay is a worse sin than any other sin. Let me be the first to tell you if you have not heard this yet. In God's eyes, EVERY sin is equal. It doesn't matter if you killed a person, or if you shoplifted. It doesn't matter if you lusted after a married woman and committed adultery with her in your heart or if you were a rapist. These are ALL sins, and God hates all of them. He doesn't say that He will accept some of these sins because they are less severe than others. The only reason that you and I are accepted in His sight is because His sinless Son took our place of punishment. Then, how is it that Christians condemn those that identify as homosexuals?

Does this mean that we should allow homosexuals to get married? Well, let's take a look at some hard facts.

Many people profess that this is a "Christian" nation, so that is why gay marriage should not be allowed. Actually, this country is no longer a Christian nation. We may have been founded on Christian principles, but let me be honest with you, I do not think this is a Christian nation any longer. This was what my friend pointed out to me in our car ride that resonated with me. First of all, this nation is so diverse, and there are people with so many various viewpoints that our government cannot run simply on religion alone. Second of all, so many people do so many things that are wrong, so then where is the Christ-likeness that we profess to have? No, I don't believe this country is a Christian country. I believe this is a secular nation founded on Christian morals and principles, and we have long forgotten them.

Another argument that is used is the Bible. Now, that is a great place to look for an argument. Yes, the Bible does speak against homosexuality, but to apply it in a nation that is largely secular cannot happen. We don't look to the Bible to solve the economical problems, nor do we look to the Bible on how to take care of the environment. Believe it or not, these are all in the Bible, but we don't look to the Bible for that, so then how can you look to the Bible for this one topic. You are doing God a great injustice, and you're lying to yourself.

Lastly, many people say that the sanctity of marriage is between a man and a woman which is what the Bible states, and which is what I agree with. BUT, take a look at how people view marriage today. Divorce is at an all-time high. One in two marriages end in divorce. That's 50%! Is that preserving the sanctity of marriage? How about when Hollywood celebrities jump in and out of marriage like it's a fad? Is that preserving the sanctity of marriage. I'm sorry, but heterosexual couples have defiled the sanctity of marriage, so to say that the homosexual community is ruining the sanctity of marriage is a lie, because it's already been ruined by heterosexuals. Now, to those that are living a long, happy, married life without divorce, I wish you all the best, and way to work hard in preserving the sanctity of marriage in your lives. I only pray that your children see, learn, and grow in that way.

Outside of the Bible, is there a legitimate reason that gay marriage should not be allowed? It would seem not. Whether they be Democrats or Republicans, both parties exploit this topic of gay marriage for their own selfish gains. Democrats are for it, so as to gain the LGBT community's votes, not because they genuinely care for them. Republicans are against it, and they use the Bible as a perverse way to get their way and the votes of the Christian community. I believe the politicians are what drove a wedge in between these two communities.

As I mentioned before, based on my personal convictions, and my desire to live my life according to the Bible, I cannot support gay marriage, but I'm just one man. Statistics show that the public opinion about gay marriage has changed drastically. Now, there are a lot more people that support it, gay or straight. If there was a way to appease both groups, then that would be ideal. Perhaps, allow them to enter into a civil union. I don't know, but this is how I see it. If the nation's people are more and more for it, then there is no choice. Eventually, I believe that gays will be allowed to marry all over the nation. In any case, don't pervert the Bible and simply use it to attack the homosexual community.

When you take a look at Christ's ministry, what did He do while He officially conducted His ministry for approximately three to three and a half years? He ate with sinners, tax collectors, and prostitutes. He went into the house of Zacchaeus. He allowed a prostitute to pour perfume on His legs and wipe it with her hair. He forgave the thief on the cross. He hung out with twelve guys that had their own issues. Yet, He still loved them. Does that mean He changed His viewpoints? Not at all! Take a look at Matthew 5, and read how He provides even more detail to the Ten Commandments. That was Christ's ministry. That is how we are supposed to be. We should be loving everyone with Christ's love, while keeping our principles.

To summarize, don't condemn or hate those that identify as homosexual. Love them! They are humans too! If we can come to a middle ground on the topic of gay marriage, then hooray! If we can't, then think to yourselves. In a country where we don't even allow prayer in schools, should we use the Bible as a measuring rod for this topic alone? If we can't use the Bible as a way to govern this country for everything, then we shouldn't use it at all. Find a common middle ground. Otherwise, enable them to marry. Why not? It'll happen eventually. Make it sooner than later, and stop wasting all this time on arguing.

On a personal note, to all that reads this, please know that I love you as Christ loves me and expects me to love others. It doesn't matter to me what sins you have, because I have my fair share. The only thing is, Christ is asking you to repent and turn to Him. Let Him come into your heart. He is the only One that can satisfy the missing piece in your heart, the hurt, and whatever else that is going on in your life.

I leave you with one instance of Christ's ministry that many seemingly overlook. When I was young, for some really weird reason or another, this passage stood out to me more than most of the common ones. It's John 8:1-11. In this passage, you see the Pharisees throwing a woman in front of Jesus and telling Him that she is an adulteress, and that based on the laws of Moses, she should be stoned to death. (Interesting on how the man she slept with isn't being held accountable, isn't it?) Christ does something that I never expected, and I don't think the Pharisees expected. I think that the reason this passage stuck out to me as a child was because of what Jesus did. He knelt down, and He began writing on the ground with His finger. The Pharisees were annoyed, and they kept badgering him on what to do, so He tells them, "If any of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." (Bam! They just got Jesused.) Upon this remark, one by one the Pharisees all left Jesus with the adulteress. What Christ says to her is the verse I will leave you with below. Jesus did not condemn her. He is without sin, yet He didn't cast a single stone! Then, how much more should we who are sinful not be casting stones at those around us? Christ didn't condemn her. He loved her. He forgave her. I encourage you all to go out there and love on everyone. Accept each and everyone, because we all have our flaws. If we were truly able to accept each other despite our flaws, then the problems that we come across would have an easy solution. Model Christ's love to the lease of these.

"Jesus straightened up and asked her, 'Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?' 'No one, sir,' she said. 'Then neither do I condemn you,' Jesus declared. 'Go now and leave your life of sin.'"

-John 8:10-11 (NIV 1984)

"Then the King will say to those on His right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father;  take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes, and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.' Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?' The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'" 

-Matthew 25:34-40 (NIV 1984) 

Pastor and Pastoral Care in the Context of the New Generation Marthomites

Below, you will find my article which I submitted for the Mar Thoma Messenger, a couple of weeks back. Thirumeni asked for an article, and so I typed this up. Anyways, this is a vital topic in the Mar Thoma community today. As folks in the new generation, ask yourselves how you view your Ministers. Then, strive to work with any Achen to bring spiritual growth in the church.

In the Mar Thoma Church, we are greatly blessed with ministers that are handpicked by God. These are individuals that strive to be used as an instrument by God to touch the hearts of many, so that the many may experience Christ’s unfailing love and turn to Him. Within the new generation, many of us believe that these Achens probably do not understand us or cannot relate with us. We seemingly put them on a pedestal, but in reality, they are like us. They have gone through struggles, just like us. They have grown, just like us. They have dealt with temptation, just like us. Where their ministry and their life are right now is because that is where God has guided them to be a transformative mark upon the lives that they come across. That is why I believe that our Achens care so much. That is why every time an Achen leaves our church after spending approximately three years with us, we cannot help but shed a tear or wish they never had to leave. I often think of Christ’s ministry when an Achen is being transferred. Christ spent approximately three and a half years ministering here. After those three and a half years, were all the blind granted vision? Were all the deaf able to hear? Did all the dead rise up? No, but Christ led such an impactful ministry that changed the lives of His Apostles, and they in turn continued that ministry. Now, more than two thousand years later, the Gospel is still being spread. Similarly, an Achen’s ministry cannot simply flourish in one area, but rather be given an opportunity to be experienced elsewhere. That way, they can continue to spread the Gospel to every place that they are sent. Just as the Israelites were led by the pillar of cloud by day and the pillar of fire by night, so too are these ministers led until they can enter the Promised Land, which is Heaven.

As Achens come to a church, some have high aspirations for the new generation. They will fully support them and push them for great goals. Then, there are some Achens that come unsure of how to interact with the upcoming generation, but are too comfortable with the parents and elders of the church. Before their ministry finishes though, every Achen will have a deep fire for the youths, and they push us to great heights. They strive to get us involved, so that we can bring fresh ideas to the table. They realize that we are not simply the future of the church, but rather, the present. They pray for us unceasingly, so that we may take the reins of what our forefathers have built thus far. Ministry is not simply something that an Achen takes on, but rather, it is something that we as the people of God work together to achieve. As youths, we are not called to be passive but to be proactive under the direction of our Achens, thereby making a transformation in our lives, families, church, and community for the glory of God.

Hope you liked what you read. I encourage everyone to step up in any and every available facet with the resources given to you to bring a change within the church. We as parishioners are called to work with our ministers to bring the expansion of the Kingdom of God. We aren't called to keep Christ confined within the walls of the church, but the church is meant to go out into the world. I will leave you with a verse.

"For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

-Mark 10:45  (ESV)